Chisel and carve the world in child's eyes
Chisel and carve the world in child's eyes
Eyes are the window of the soul. At ordinary times, so long as we pay attention to observing the children's eyes, can open the world of the child's simplicity of the children, understand the secrets in the heart of children.
Once, son and I watch animal's world, have presented two hungry birds and waited for mother to come back to feed on the picture, one day soon, will not see mother either, suddenly, a small worm fell by their body, two birds, in order to strive to eat a small worm, begins the fierce fight, relatively small a strength is weak, have been pecked very much by one's own compatriot. The son sees, looks with the utmost concentration, hold all over tear in eyes, still letting in the mouth ceaselessly: "How pitiful the bird is! ,His mother is sure to come back sad. "
From the son's eyes, I read his limitless sympathy to bird, on the face full of the son and hesitate, I have found out the son is full of love. Catching this opportunity, I educate children: Everybody should be benevolent; Between the friends, want to help each other between the brothers; Study some more abilities, some skills, is only a good child like this.
It see on the one day is after coming off duty son have foam torn full,should play saying you, he say, should play too, son cast a look at me, reconnoiter " produce the trials and hardship " timid Whether will come soon, will be looking at this scene, I say to the son with a smile. "It's nothing, you want to play and play, do not play, sweep clean. " Different life
The son is very glad, then play, play with it enough, take the whisk broom to sweep by oneself, sweep very clean, but very hard, one small yuans of place use for a long time, have finished sweeping, take out and tow Butuo again, is looking at every gesture of the son, I have laughed gratifiedly, the son has grown up, begin to be sensible.
It is a child's natural instincts that the love is played with, let him seek in playing happily, increase experience, let him learn to do, should bear responsibility for the thing that oneself do by oneself in one's own thing. So long as the child is conscientious, can bear and love the home, build the home, love the motherland, build the obligation of the motherland.
The child has learnt in the kindergarten " Nail the button " This children's song, after going home, begin to try to make a match, should nail the button while quarrelling. "Needle, how dangerous it is! Not in order to prick hands. " This that is us unanimously, later on I think, since he does, let him try, give one cloth headband conveniently, take son of needle can do needlework very skillfully unexpectedly never, all of us feel pleasant surprise. I take the son in one's arms and praise cheerfully: "Our son is very amazing, such difficult work can be done, stronger yet than mother? " From the son's eyes, the sense of pride that I have not always found out one kind.
Present families are mostly only-children, the children are the apple of one's eye of the Papa and Mama grandparents, live the life living an easy life, with everything provided. Child can own thing be, among life, basically all is dominated by the adult, do not need them to touch it. As time passes, the children have dependences.
Let children learn to do one's own thing by oneself, the adult will be very relaxed. In our constant encouragement, appreciate, the son has learnt having a bath, has a meal, one pile of quilts ...... Have learnt many methods of taking care of oneself.
Life give child " award with fish, not so good as, award by fishing " .
One day, I went to the kindergarten to meet children, increased some pictures newly on the wall of the school, among them there are round many in one side, the son points to illustrating above: "Big and round, small and round, mum, why some are old, are some young? " Coming back home, I had taken a rope and a piece of chalk, the son was too impatient to ask: "Mum, what are you going to do? " Looking at the fascination of a face of son, I say to the son smiling at: "Mother lets you make the outlook of making today. " I put one of chalk's end on rope, fix the rope on nail on the wall, draw on the wall, one is so big and round as to appear, look at son's look of surprise, I draw back rope one, draw a round, change the rope size, I also draw several rounds again and again, the son robs the rope chalk in my hand according to being unable to bear the anxious heart, begin to experience. Looking at so many circles on the wall, I ask the son: "Why some are round and old, are some round and young? " The son lifts the rope rope of the hand, say cheerfully, the rope is enclosed greatly and enclosed heavily, the ringlet of rope is enclosed low. See the son find the answer in touching it, I lift the thumb and say cheerfully: "Son, you are very amazing, find the round secret: The round size relates to radius, the rope rope in your hand is the radius. " The son has smiled, I have smiled too.
Treat the child's curiosity kindly, not only should let them know it is right, but also know the reason why of it.
Life, just like a book, you read conscientiously, are considering constantly, will understand it, find a lot of secrets.
Send son to school in the morning, see that there is snow with thin and thin one storey on the ground, it is called that sons are surprised: Snow! Looking at son's glad strength, I have already guessed his attention completely, have said simply: "Have a little time, play for a moment. " Preparative son originally for a long time, taking out the small silent stock tube begins to put the snow. I have a brainwave, " the son, finish playing, take the tube which is filled with the snow with oneself, while leaving school at noon, tell mother, what changes it has. " Leave school, son tell answer me, until " whether how transform into snow " me noon Have told the son.
In playing with the snow, the child has personally experienced all course that the snow turns into water, has learnt knowledge easily, have trained how to observe the ability of the things around, really may be said that gains three ends at once.
Sunday, I bring under four son get bank of the river go, play, see, bring small tail swim of ink little tadpole, the son is glad to call, quarrelling wants me to catch several to take home for him, I have looked for the small bottle at the roadside, have catch five or six, has met the son's requirement.
Have seen son's fondness of the little tadpole in eyes that I liked from the son. The chance has come, I have told son the story that the little tadpole looked for mother at once. After going home, I require the son to observe the change of the little tadpole every day, taking the strong curiosity son begins to observe, and the change of telling me the little tadpole every day, until turning into a little frog. Son and I put the little frog into the river.
Looking at the reluctant to part with son, I have told him frog's ability of stressing pest, tell him the frog is the beneficial insect, everybody of us want to protect it, let it return to nature.
Life is educated, let us remove the scales from eyes, go to chisel and carve the world in child's eyes everywhere.
